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Wecanmakemistakesatanyage.Somemistakeswemakeareaboutmoney.Butmostmistakesareaboutpeople.DidJerryreallycarewhenIbrokeupwithHelen?WhenIgotthatgreatjob,didJimreallyfeelgoodaboutit,asafriend?Ordidheenvymyluck?AndPaul-whydidn'tpickupthathewasfriendlyjustbecauseIhadacar?Whenwelookback,doubtslikethesecanmakeusfeelbad.Butwhenwelookback,it'stoolate.
Whydowegowrongaboutourfriends-orourenemies?Sometimeswhatpeoplesayhidestheirrealmeaning.Andifwedon'treallylistenwemissthefeelingbehindthewords.Supposesomeonetellsyou,You'realuckydog.That'sbeingfriendly.Butluckydog?There'sabitofenvyinthosewords.Maybehedoesn'tseeithimself.Butbringinginthedogbitputsyoudownalittle.Whathemaybesayingisthatthedoesn'tthinkyoudeserveyourluck.
Justthinkofallthethingsyouhavetobethankfulforisanothernoisethatsaysonethingandmeansanother.Itcouldmeanthatthespeakeristryingtogetyoutoseeyourproblemaspartofyourlifeasawhole.Butishe?Wrappedupinthisphraseisthethoughtthatyourproblemisn'timportant.It'stellingyoutothinkofallthestarvingpeopleintheworldwhenyouhaven'tgotadateforSaturdaynight.
Howcanyoutelltherealmeaningbehindsomeone'swords?Onewayistotakeagoodlookatthepersontalking.Dohiswordsfitthewayhelooks?Doeswhathesaysagreewiththetoneofvoice?Hisposture(姿态)?Thelookinhiseyes?Stopandthink.Theminuteyouspendthinkingabouttherealmeaningofwhatpeopletoyoumaysaveanothermistake.
1.Thispassageismainlyabout.
A)howtointerpretwhatpeoplesay
B)whattodowhenyoulistentootherstalking
C)howtoavoidmistakeswhenyoucommunicatewithpeople
D)Whywegowrongwithpeoplesometimes
2.Accordingtotheauthor,thereasonwhywegowrongaboutourfriendsisthat.
A)Wefailtolistencarefullywhentheytalk
B)Peopletendtobeannoyedwhenwecheckwhattheysay
C)Peopleusuallystateonethingbutmeansanother
D)Wetendtodoubtwhatourfriendssay
3.InthesentenceMaybehedoesn'tseeithimself.inthesecondparagraph,thepronounitrefersto.
A)beingfriendly
C)luckydog
B)abitofenvy
D)yourluck
4.Whenwelistentoapersontalking,themostimportantthingforustodois.
A)noticethewaythepersonistalking
B)takeagoodlookatthepersontalking
C)mindhistone,hispostureandthelookinhiseyes
D)examinetherealmeaningofwhathesaysbasedonhismanner,histoneandhisposture
5.Theauthormostprobablyisa.
A)teacher
C)philosopher
B)psychologist
D)doctor
Answer
1.C2.C3.B4.D5.B |
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